Ever feel like the biggest thing standing between you and the life you want… isn't other people… but you? 

Here are some signs you might be unintentionally sabotaging yourself: 

- You allow fear and doubt to stop you from taking action 

- You procrastinate on important tasks or settle for “good enough” 

- You play it safe, resist change and fall into distractions 

- You believe your past defines your future

- You struggle to set boundaries and hold onto unhealthy habits 

- You care too much about what other people think 

- Your inner critic constantly tears you down 

- You waste mental energy on guilt, anger or worry 

- Your limiting beliefs prevent you from making bold decisions 

- You fall into patterns like perfectionism, overthinking, or waiting for others to change first 

If any of this sounds familiar… you’re not alone. 

In fact, most people experience some form of self-sabotage at different stages of their life. 

The good news? 

You can learn to stop getting in your own way.

 

INTRODUCING WHEN YOUR WORST ENEMY IS YOU

 

This book will show you how to manage your mind when faced with the 35 most common internal obstacles that keep people stuck. 

Inside, you'll learn how to recognise the sabotaging thoughts that hold you back… 

And replace them with strategies that help you move forward instead. 

My goal is simple: 

To help you finally become your own best ally rather than your own worst enemy. 

Because the first step toward creating the life you want… is learning how to get out of your own way.

INSIDE THIS BOOK YOU’LL DISCOVER HOW TO: 

- Identify the thought patterns that sabotage your success 

- Understand the psychology behind fear, doubt and procrastination 

- Replace destructive thinking with empowering beliefs 

- Build self-trust and confidence in your decisions 

- Stop playing small and start taking meaningful action 

- Turn internal obstacles into opportunities for growth 

 

By the end of this book, you will have a clear strategy for managing the thoughts that previously kept you stuck.

 

A QUICK INTRODUCTION

I'm Frances Vidakovic - a certified life coach with a degree in psychology, course creator, and host of the Inspiring Life School podcast. 

For over 20 years, I’ve helped people navigate fear, procrastination, self-doubt and the many mental roadblocks that prevent them from achieving their goals. 

And here's something I've learned through all those years of coaching: 

Humans naturally get in their own way. 

It’s not because something is wrong with you. 

It’s simply part of being human. 

But when you learn how to manage your thoughts and respond differently… everything begins to change. 

   

WHEN YOUR WORST ENEMY IS YOU

HOW TO FINALLY GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY

 

WHAT READERS ARE SAYING

⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ “It felt like I was reading a life manual written specifically for me.”

I absolutely loved this book and truly learned SO MUCH. I have always been my own worst enemy and I’ve always felt like there was something wrong with me. I’m like, why can’t I just be normal?!?! So thank you, Frances, for teaching me that I am normal and that I’m not the only one who struggles with these negative thoughts. 

Out of all the self-help books I’ve read - and I’ve read many - your book has definitely been the most helpful and resonated with me more than any other. It felt like I was reading a life manual written specifically for me. Thanks again for writing such an amazing book! - Alison L.

⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ “Each chapter felt like having a personal coach right there with me as I read.”

The book, When Your Worst Enemy Is You by Frances Vidakovic is a book about seeing yourself in a completely different light. It’s a book on how to help you get past the one thing that could be stopping you from your future self. And that would be You. I loved, loved, loved this book. 

From the very beginning she pulled me in and I could see clearly many of the things that were holding me back from my destiny. She explains chapter by chapter from Fear, to Worry, to Maintaining Toxic Relationships, how these show up in our lives and how we can stop them in their tracks. 

The quote from the book sums up the theme of everything: “What if you could get hurt and then recover and become a million times stronger after that experience?” 

Many of us spend a great part of our lives wondering why we are the way are, or why we haven’t started a certain business or experience for example and with the words in this book, I could see much clearer had I not read it. Each chapter I felt like there was a personal coach right along with me as I read. 

Gaining bits of wisdom and aha moments. How long have you not been trusting yourself and your own instinct? It is NO LONGER the case for me. It Is as she writes in the book – “You must simply decide to embrace it.” The author will teach you how to be unapologetically you, how to love yourself practically, and what it means to be your best friend. 

If you are done playing small, avoiding decisions, doubting – then this is the book for you. If you want the thoughts in your life to change and have the transformation you are longing for, the first step is get your copy of Your Worst Enemy is You: How To Finally Get Out Of Your Own Way I definitely recommend! - Stephanie R.

⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ “It feels more like a practical handbook than a traditional self-help book.”

Being able to read this book has been such a gift. I imagine you saying the words to me over a cup of tea, as a friend, and it instantly adds more weight to it. The information and ideas are presented in a way that is easy to digest, easy to relate to, and easy to action. 

Big ideas and mindset shifts can sometimes be so overwhelming and intimidating to adopt. I love how each chapter is broken down in a logical way, and that you give real life examples of how the behavior manifests and how to tackle it. I love the "replace with" thoughts. 

I love that I can pick the behaviors and thoughts that I truly identify with and focus on them first. It's really more of a "handbook/guide" I think than a traditional book. 

For me, its is a winner and truly useful. I tend to quickly start rolling my eyes at the toxic positivity mumbo jumbo style of most self help books that all seem to not only say the same thing, but also say it in the same way...overexplaining the principle of something but not really getting to the "okay great, but now what?" part of it. I feel like you fill that gap with this book. Thank you so much for this precious gift. - Julie L.

⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ “This book gives you a clearly structured game plan.”

I simply cannot put into words how much I loved this book but I am determined to do my best so that I may encourage potential future readers to read it ASAP! 

I was mesmerized by it from cover to cover. I love that the book provided readers with organized and detailed lists of problems/self-destructive thoughts and also alternative/productive thoughts. This was a helpful way of assisting me in adding "tools" to my toolbox that I plan to carry with me throughout life. 

Rather than simply stating "please don't do this....it's not serving you well" in regards to unhealthy thought patterns, this book actually gives you the alternative thoughts to use in the place of the self-sabotaging thoughts so that we are equipped with tools that will serve us well. 

This book gives you a clearly structured game-plan. I binge-read it in one sitting and I look forward to going back through it many times to be sure that I am able to fully absorb it and put to use all of the life changing tools it so generously provides. 

Thank you - these two words do not do justice for how transformational this book could be for so many people. In my opinion this book is needed by countless people and I truly feel like it provides all the answers a reader could possibly be seeking with regards to improving their internal dialogue that is so often hurting them. - Kwana L.

 

WHEN YOUR WORST ENEMY IS YOU

HOW TO FINALLY GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY

 

WHAT THIS BOOK WILL HELP YOU DO

This book will help you stop allowing fear, doubt and negative thinking to control your life. 

Instead, you’ll develop the ability to: 

- recognise sabotaging thoughts when they appear 

 - respond to them with clarity and confidence 

 - make decisions aligned with your goals 

 - move forward even when things feel uncomfortable 

Because real transformation begins the moment you stop fighting yourself… and start working with your own mind instead.

 

YOUR COMPLETE SELF-SABOTAGE BREAKTHROUGH BUNDLE

When you purchase WHEN YOUR WORST ENEMY IS YOU, you’ll also receive these powerful bonuses:

BONUS 1: 

Who Before How Roadmap

Learn why who you become matters more than how you do something when it comes to achieving your goals.

BONUS 2: 

Do Something! Action Guide

A powerful 100+ page guide designed to help you stop overthinking and start taking action immediately.

BONUS 3: 

Ultimate Affirmation Collection

Over 2000 affirmations covering 42 life areas to help reshape your thinking and reinforce empowering beliefs.

BONUS 4: 

Future Self Workbook

A practical workbook designed to help you become the person capable of achieving your goals.

BONUS 5: 

7 Layers Deep Why Workbook

Discover your true motivation so you can stay focused even when things get difficult.

BONUS 6: 

Bad Day Survival Kit

A simple guide to help you reset your mindset and turn difficult days around quickly.

BONUS 7: 

Life 101 Rules Printable

A powerful reminder of how thoughts influence feelings, actions and results.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Will I receive a physical book?

No. This book and the bonuses are delivered digitally as downloadable PDFs. 

Once you purchase, you'll receive an email with access to the platform where all materials can be downloaded.

 

How long will I have access?

You’ll have lifetime access to the book and all bonuses. 

You can read the PDFs on any device, upload them into your Books app, store them in Google Drive, or print them if you prefer reading on paper.

  

How do you recommend I read these PDFs? 

You can read the PDFs on any device, upload them into your Books app, store them in Google Drive, or print them if you prefer reading on paper.

HERE'S EVERYTHING YOU GET 

When Your Worst Enemy Is You Book 

BONUS Who Before How Roadmap 

BONUS Do Something Book 

BONUS The Ultimate Affirmation Collection 

BONUS Your Future Self Workbook 

BONUS 7 Layers Deep Why Workbook 

BONUS Bad Day Survival Kit 

BONUS Life 101 Rules Printable 

ONE FINAL THOUGHT 

Most people spend years believing their circumstances are what hold them back. 

But more often than not… the biggest obstacle is happening inside their own mind. 

Once you learn how to recognise and manage those thoughts… you unlock a completely new level of freedom and possibility.

If you're tired of being your own biggest obstacle…

It's time to become your own strongest ally.